When was the last time you did something for the first time?
In 2013, my friend Ally and I committed to doing something new, something outside of our comfort zone or something that scared us everyday. (You can read more about that experience here).
The amount of response we got from this challenge was overwhelming. The number one thing we heard was, “I want to do that too but where should I start?” Ally and I put together this list to pass along to every person who asks us that. Most of these examples we thought of, but we also borrowed a few from the great brain of Google, and an awesome project similar to ours I stumbled on recently called the 52/52 project.
Bookmark this list, share it, tweet it, print it out and put it somewhere you’ll see it often.
I can tell you from a year of fear that crossing off items on this list will change your life, challenge you, and crank your awesome knob to 11.
Some are easy, some are obvious. Some are free, some require a few dollars. I wanted this list to be comprehensive with at least a few activities that anyone at any age, budget or location could partake in.
And please feel free to share with me any feedback from your experience via social networks or email (all my info is on the contact page). I would love to hear from you.
Have fun 
– Kendra & Ally
– Kendra & Ally
The risks of breaking out of your comfort zone isn’t nearly as bad as the risks of staying in it your whole life.
Take a new way home from work.
+ Starbucks drive thru – pay for the coffee in the car behind you.
+ Approach someone who intimidates you and compliment them.
+ Slow dance on a rooftop (or somewhere epic).
+ Drive around, crank your favorite songs and have a dance off at stoplights to make strangers laugh.
+ Have a marshmallow eating contest with your best friend.
+ Go play Bingo. Get serious about it and talk some mad bingo smack.
+ Hug a stranger.
+ Go for a police ride along.
+ Rent a tandem bike with a friend.
+ Go to lunch by yourself.
+ Have a difficult conversation face to face instead of email/text/phone.
+ Buy coloring books, your favorite ice-cream, and invite the funniest person you know over.
+ Try a new coffee place in town or go somewhere new every time you go out to eat.
+ Take a new fitness class you’ve always wanted to try. Laugh at yourself when you suck.
+ Call your Mother just to tell her how much you love her.
+ Send someone flowers for no reason.
+ Go to a restaurant, order and eat dessert first.
+ Ask for a raise.
If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try. – Seth Godin
- + Write 5 thank you cards to your best friends and tell them why they mean so much to you. Send them old school via snail mail. #madfriendkarma
- + Have a dance off in front of your mirror.
- + Pull an all nighter when a fun opportunity arises instead of going home.
- + Go to a public pillow fight, or organize one with your friends.
- + Go to a thrift store with a $20 budget, dress your friend/significant other hilariously, and then go out to lunch in your new spunky outfits.
- + Hunt down a hilarious photo op.
- + Grab a pair of headphones and friend. Have a headphones dance off. Most ridiculous moves win.
- + Drive naked. *not responsible for any consequences or great stories that arise out of this
- + Jump into a lake with your clothes on.
- + Lead your friend/significant other to a beautiful place blindfolded, bring picnic supplies.
- + Buy a bottle of bubbles, lay in the grass with a friend and blow bubbles while talking about your favorite childhood memories.
- + Lay on the 50 yard line of a football field at night and stargaze.
- + Go for a drive. When you get to an intersection, take turns deciding which way to go. GPS your way back home.
- + Go somewhere you shouldn’t be.
- + Night hike under the stars. Don’t forget the coco
- + Go to your favorite book store, and leave notes in your favorites books for future readers.
- + Have an indoor camping night. Build a fort out of blankets and furniture. Cook s’mores in the microwave. Turn out all the lights in the house and only navigate with flashlights.
- + Dress to the nines. Go to a dealership, pretend to be married and drive swanky vehicles.
- + Walk around the city all night and find a place to eat breakfast at dawn.
- +Go to a restaurant, convince the cook to create something completely new for you.
- Rent a movie you’ve never seen before. Mute it and improvise the dialogue.
- Take a class you’ve always wanted to take.
